A Fork in the Road“We do not obtain the most precious gifts by going in search of them but by waiting for them.” So says the philosopher, Simone Weil. Her…Sep 9Sep 9
Perfectly Imperfect: Why Can’t You Be Who I Want You to Be?So, you met someone. Not just anyone, but the person you’ve been longing for. The connection between the two of you is pure magic. Deep…Jun 24Jun 24
Age Really is Just a Number: Or is it?Age is an infuriatingly complex construct for me. While I am now classified as a senior citizen, the company I keep is more often than not…Aug 25, 2023Aug 25, 2023
Purple HazeThe degrading, demeaning, demoralizing, disgusting, and dangerous ritual of hazing in college sports and elsewhere must end. Reading about…Jul 11, 2023Jul 11, 2023
Is Your Therapist a “Wounded Healer?”When my sons were in middle and high school, they played basketball with two brothers whose parents were a bit wacky. They were just a…Dec 30, 2021Dec 30, 2021
Meeting the Mental Health Needs of AthletesThe Fall sports season is here. Millions of fans are again packing stadiums throughout the country. I’m not so sure that’s advisable, but…Sep 12, 2021Sep 12, 2021
It’s Easier Not to Be GreatHow performance-based identity dysregulates athletes.Aug 9, 2021Aug 9, 2021
The Wrong One Died: Face-to-Face with Survivor’s GuiltThe wounds of my childhood had been ripped open in an instant by four words in a book.Feb 20, 2021Feb 20, 2021